In team games there are two chat “channels”. The tab at the top defaults to “Team” chat. You must select the “All” tab to send a message to all players.

Jedi is a cool word but it would be considered a proper noun that should be capitalized and those are not valid.
OK is also more of an abbreviation that is capitalized when used correctly. The spelling is okay.
que is possibly an alternate spelling of cue. For those type of judgement calls we look to the scrabble dictionary. If they add it then we would also.

The actual updates should be fairly quick. Players do play at all different rates. Some players do a turn or two a game each day. Some only play every few days. Some like to find someone to finish a game in one sitting. Many users start lots of games and then focus on those playing at the speed they want to play. See the section on player etiquette in our knowledgebase. If you think there is an issue with system processing turns slowly then shoot us an email at support@peoplefun.com with details. Thanks for playing!